James Spader

James Spader

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Who is James Spader dating right now?

James Spader is in a long-term relationship with Leslie Stefanson.
Leslie Stefanson
  • Commenced Dating: 2002
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James Spader is in a long-term relationship with Leslie Stefanson.

He was married to Victoria Spader from 1987 to 2004.
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Leslie Stefanson - 91 Votes

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Acting Credits

The Homesman (2014)
Aloysius Duffy

The Blacklist (2013) (TV Show)

The Blacklist: Are You on the Blacklist?
Raymond 'Red' Reddington

Lincoln (2012)
W.N. Bilbo

Shorts (2009)
Mr. Black

The Office (2005) (TV Show)

William Ashbury

Boston Legal (2004) (TV Show)

Alien Hunter (2003)
Julian Rome

I Witness (2003)
Douglas Draper

The Pentagon Papers (2003) (TV Movie)
Daniel Ellsberg

Secretary (2002)

The Stickup (2002)
John Parker

Dr. Roger Klink

Slow Burn (2000)

Supernova (2000)

The Watcher (2000)

Stevenson Lowe

Driftwood (1997)
The Man

The Practice (1997) (TV Show)

Crash (1996)

Wolf (1994)

Dream Lover (1993)

Jack Pozzi

Frasier (1993) (TV Show)

Bob Roberts (1992)
Chuck Marlin

Storyville (1992)
Cray Fowler

True Colors (1991)
Tim Gerrity

White Palace (1990)


Seinfeld (1989) (TV Show)
Jason 'Stanky' Hanky

Jack's Back (1988)
John, Rick Wesford

Baby Boom (1987)
Ken Arrenberg


Mannequin (1987)

Wall Street (1987)
Roger Barnes


The New Kids (1985)

Tuff Turf (1985)
Morgan Hiller

Starcrossed (1985) (TV Movie)
Joey Callaghan

Family Secrets (1984) (TV Movie)
Lowell Everall

A Killer in the Family (1983) (TV Movie)
Donny Tison

Cocaine: One Man's Seduction (1983) (TV Movie)
Buddy Gant

Diner (TV Show)

The Family Tree (1983) (TV Show)
Jake Nichols

Team-Mates (1978)

Producer Credits

The Blacklist (2013) (TV Show)

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Posted by hello se xy :)

Aww, you seem neglected. Wanna play? hmmm

Posted by Hello

James, James, James, James, omighosh James. hahaha

Posted by James

my vote was for e r o t i c a
poetry buy you didn't ask me

Posted by james

is very s e x y too! Talented, intelligent, funny. What's not to like?

Posted by Barb Seals

I think James Spader is the best. He is my all time favorite actor . he is so good looking but there is more to him than just his looks . Iwould give anything to meet him..but I know that will never happen ..you r the best james spader.

Posted by soooooo

I guess not . Later !

Posted by soooooo

Hmmm do you have time for a story? Do I?

Posted by soooooo

So say something Mr. Spader. Say something. Lol

Posted by Good Morning

That is something I'll remember all day. I hope you're prepared the next time I wake up before you. You might wake up with my to ngue in your pus sy, or my co ck in your a ss. You'll have to wait and see.""I can't wait." Those are my first words of the morning. No words needed to be said when your c ock was in my mouth. I'll remember that all day as well. I smile wic kedly as you get into the shower. Moving to your side of the bed, I change your alarm clock so it will wake you up 20 minutes earlier tomorrow morning. I can't wait to see what that means for me.

Posted by Good Morning

"It's your turn now, I want to hear you cu m," you say. It was a command, not a suggestion or a request, knowing the tone is one I can't ignore. "You're going to c um for me, loudly in....three... two...one..." you continue, reading my body, moving your thumb along my cl it. On "one" I c um, squi rting more ju ices from my already drenched pu ssy, my cries echoing around the room. Your fingers slow, relea sing my sensitive pu ssy."What a way to wake up," your words were a care ss as you leaned down to ki ss my forehead.

Posted by Good Morning

Fu ck, I'm c um ming...." you gr ind the words out. You take a step back, rele asing your giant c ock from my mouth. You aim and c um on my face, neck an bre asts. So much c um, it feels like you'll never stop. I m oan quietly now, reaching up with one hand to car ess your now softening c ock and wipe any remaining c um from the tip. My other hands moves down to my pu ssy, two fingers push inside me. I'm so fu cking wet, a third finger slides right in as well. I fu ck myself now with my fingers as you watch. Your c um dri ps along my br easts. I rub my bre asts, coating them with it, grabbing my ni pples while moving my fingers inside me. You push my hands out of the way, and squeeze my nip ples. I offer you my fingers that are covered in the ju ices from my p us sy. You li ck them clean under my gaze, then move to replace them with your own fingers. Your hands play me, finding the spots in my pu ssy and cli t that make me scre am in abandon as I reach the edge. 

Posted by Good Morning

Sorry about the delay. Here is the rest

Posted by Good Morning

One of your hands cups my head, the other guides your c ock in and out of my mouth and open throat. I s uck and fu ck your co ck with my mouth, my ton gue swirling up and down as your c ock, so big and hard now, stretches my mouth around it. Pus hing and fu cking my mouth. You reach down with one hand and pinch my ni pples, twe ak ing them. I try to scream in ag ony and ecst asy but I can't scream around your hard c ock. It forces my jaw to open wider, my throat to make room for it. I s uck, and s lurp and let you fu ck me, wanting to taste you when you c um. Hoping you won't co me in my throat.

Posted by Good Morning

Your hips respond. So do your hands, finding the back of my head they tangle in my hair, guiding my head up and down, moving faster in the endless rhythm of fu ck ing. In one move you stand up and push me onto my back with a growl. My head hangs off of the bed. Your c ock finds it's way back into my mouth and down my throat. "Good morning, that's quite the wake up," you say. 

Posted by Good Morning

When your body stills, I go back to running my lips and ton gue all over your hard co ck. Feeling it twitch and move against my care sses. How should I wake you up? The ideas drift across my thoughts as I ponder the possibilities of the morning. My pu.ssy is wet and thro bbing. It has been from the first touch of your c ock this morning. I want it inside me again and again and again, but this morning is about you. The selfish way I want you to fu ck me hard with my legs in the air so I can feel every inch of your co ck inside my wet pu ssy sidetracks me. One of my hands starts care ssing the length of your body while I start taking your c ock into my mouth, gradually taking it deeper to the back of my throat. My mouth moves up and down finding a rhythm, my other hand moving along the base of your c ock and your b alls. 

Posted by Good Morning

In these moments before the day begins, you and your c ock are mine. I'll keep you hostage in the bed, holding you here with my strong, legs wrapped around you if it comes to that. But right now, it is just your co ck in my hands, with my to ngue gliding along it's shape. Creating an outline, a map, a path to follow for any tong ues that follow. Your c ock grows harder and bigger in my hands. My plea sure in it's size is renewed every time I see it, touch it, taste it, fu ck it. My li p s and ton gue swirl and slide across the soft surface that covers your ha rd sha ft.You shift in the bed and I pause with my l ips still surrounding the big purple h ead of your co ck, my hand freezing where it moved around the base. 

Posted by Good Morning

This morning I'm still a little sore from when you rav aged my pu ssy last night. It is also still wet, my body prepared and wanting more. As if you can hear my thoughts you roll over onto your back, covered by only a sheet. I reach over and peel the sheet off of you hoping the movement and the morning air won't wake you up. Crawling to the foot of the bed, I gently nudge your legs apart, my hand lightly mass aging your feet and strong calves. Your breathing slows as you relax deeper and my hands move higher. My fingers lightly cover your co ck, enjoying it's size even relaxed. Softly, I wrap one hand around the base while the other begin cupping your tes ticles, moving behind and under them. I lean down and kiss the tip of your c ock, li cking it slowly, softly, sens uously. Wishing your c ock a good morning. It's starting to wake up even if you are not.

Posted by Good morning

Waking up slowly, I roll onto my side and see you lying next to me amidst the slate grey sheets and blankets. It's a rare morning that I wake before you and I enjoy it for a minute, stretching deeply, arching my back, so my bre asts jut out, and reaching out through the long length of my legs. My fingers find my br easts and nip ples while I watch you sleep. It's a slow and sen suous morning after the tea sing last night. You always do enjoy a good tea sing. Until you overpower my tea sing because you know I enjoy a good, h ard, d eep fu ck ing even more. 

Posted by Good morning

Mr. Spader. Sleep well? I'm busy today but here is a story for you. Haha :)

Posted by Come as you are

You know I do like Mr. Spader, but my posts are not for him...

I don't have a obsessive personality, so I'm surprised myself

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James Todd Spader (born February 7, 1960) is an American actor. He is best known for portraying eccentric characters in such films as the action science fiction film Stargate (1994), the controversial psychological thriller Crash (1996), and the erotic romance Secretary (2002).


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