Your Friends & Neighbors
|Your Friends & Neighbors|
|Directed by||Neil LaBute|
|Produced by||Steve Golin |
|Written by||Neil LaBute|
|Starring||Amy Brenneman |
|Editing by||Joel Plotch|
|Distributed by||Gramercy Pictures|
|Release date(s)||August 19, 1998|
|Running time||100 minutes|
|Box office||$4,710,749 (USA sub-total)|
Your Friends & Neighbors is a 1998 comedy-drama film written and directed by Neil LaBute and starring Amy Brenneman, Aaron Eckhart, Catherine Keener, Nastassja Kinski, Jason Patric, and Ben Stiller in an ensemble cast. This film was the first to be reviewed on the website Rotten Tomatoes. The film's credit sequences feature music by Apocalyptica.
 Plot synopsis
Set in an unnamed American city, two urban, middle-class couples deal with their unhappy relationships by lying and cheating in their quest for happiness. Jerry (Stiller), is a theater instructor who is married to Terri (Keener), a writer who is alienated and unfulfilled with his love-making skills. Jerry and Terri have dinner with Mary (Brenneman), a writer friend of Terri's, and Barry (Eckhart) a business executive who is oblivious to his wife's unhappiness. During dinner, Mary talks about writing a local newspaper column about bickering couples and their troubles, while Barry does not think that other couple problems are anyone else's concern. After dinner, Jerry discreetly asks Mary out on a date. Mary, out of frustration, accepts.
The next day, Terri, visiting a local art gallery, meets and begins a secret romance with Cheri (Kinski), a lesbian gallery worker. Terri feels satisfied with their lovemaking and enjoys the quiet of it compared with Jerry's performance. Cary (Patric) a doctor friend of Barry's, is a sexual predator who picks up naïve and emotionally vulnerable young women, has sex with them, and dumps them for the pleasure of watching them cry. Aware of the distance between Barry and Mary, Cary tries to persuade Barry to leave his wife for the swinging lifestyle that Cary has built for himself. Barry thinks that his marriage can be saved.
During Jerry and Mary's rendezvous at a local hotel, Jerry fails to get aroused during foreplay. As a result, he takes out his frustrations on Mary, believing that she has made him impotent. Angry and offended by his outburst, Mary abruptly ends their "affair." She feels more miserable a few days later, when Barry unwittingly takes her to the very same hotel room to rekindle their romance. Mary realizes that Jerry had told Barry about being in the room. Barry fails to understand Mary's unhappy attitude and thinks he might somehow be responsible for it.
Jerry, Barry, and Cary get together to work out and, in the steam room, Barry tries to get them to reveal their best sexual experiences. Barry tells them that he only feels satisfied with himself. Cary then tells them about his best sexual experience: forcibly sodomizing a male high school classmate in the locker room at his boarding school. Both Barry and Jerry are stunned but fascinated by Cary's story. When Cary tries to persuade Jerry to reveal his best sexual experience, Jerry refuses. After being goaded in the locker room, Jerry responds that his best sexual experience was with Barry's wife. He then leaves, with Barry too stunned to respond, and Cary saying "that beats my story."
After returning home from the gym, Barry confronts Mary over dinner about her affair with Jerry just as Terri accidentally finds out about Jerry's indiscretion and eventually confronts him too. Mary and Jerry are both unapologetic for their unfaithfulness and express dissatisfaction to both of their spouses. Terri accidentally reveals her own lesbian romance with Cheri, but does not display any guilt for her infidelity. Jerry soon confronts Cheri at the art gallery over his wife's affair with her. Cheri shows no remorse for her relationship with Terri, or with interfering with Jerry and Terri's troubled marriage. Cheri tells Jerry that Terri can do much better than being with him.
Both of the couples split up. Terri moves in with Cheri, although she finds her emotional neediness irritating. Jerry continues his philandering lifestyle with his female theater students. Barry becomes miserable because he is no longer able to give himself an erection during masturbation. Mary moves in with Cary after falling for his charms. Sometime later, when Mary tells Cary she is pregnant and wants to keep the baby, Cary yells at her for doing this to him. Mary realizes that she is even more unhappy in her new relationship with the heartless Cary than she had been with her clueless husband Barry.
- Amy Brenneman as Mary
- Aaron Eckhart as Barry
- Catherine Keener as Terri
- Nastassja Kinski as Cheri
- Jason Patric as Cary
- Ben Stiller as Jerry
- Josh Dotson as Co-worker
- Lola Glaudini as Jerry's Student
The film had mostly positive reviews. It has a 77% "certified fresh" rating on Rotten Tomatoes. It was notably the first film ever posted on Rotten Tomatoes.
- Your Friends & Neighbors at the Internet Movie Database
- Your Friends & Neighbors at AllRovi
- Your Friends & Neighbors at Rotten Tomatoes