Kim had a wild fling with a toyboy fashion designer in early 1990, shortly before she met Alec Baldwin. Alexio Gandara told the British newspaper the News of the World they enjoyed five nights of sensational sex, including one in a hotel suite with another couple in the next room. He claimed Kim fantasized about being a virgin submitting to his every desire.
"Kim made love with a passion," said Gandara, who claimed he had no idea who Kim was when he first flirted with her at a Hollywood club. "She made it clear that she liked to be dominated. She was acting the little girl, the virgin, while I was her teacher -- the big, bad master who only wore black. She particularly liked me to playfully pull her hair. As we wrested around the bed she gasped, "You're my master. I'll do anything you say. You are in control."'
According to Gandara, when she asked him what it was like to make love to a famous actress, he told her, 'I'm not impressed.' He also claimed Kim talked about making him famous by wearing his clothes, and introduced him to Michelle Pfeiffer at a party. But after five nights together she told him to stop calling her.