(September 2, 1957 - 1 May 1, 1961) (divorced)
20 July 54 a raiding party bursts into Bob Sweeny’s Hotel Westburn suite on New York’s fashionable Upper East Side. With Wade are his sister, Mrs. John Hearst, and private detectives Joseph Barrett and Elsie Berry. Sweeny, a former British amateur golf champion, unsuccessfully tries to bar Wade’s entrance after opening the door. Pamela’s allegedly caught nude.
25 January 55 her divorce from 40-year-old Wade goes to court in New York City. Private detective Joseph Barrett testifies that Pamela was wearing "no clothes at all" and Sweeny was in pajamas when a raiding party burst in on them last July 20. Pamela has two sons by her marriage to Wade and doesn’t contest the divorce. In 1953 Sweeny was on the opposite side of a divorce action after producing testimony of his wife Joanne Connelley’s visit in a hotel with Dominican playboy Porfirio Rubirosa.
Summer of 1955 was with Sweeny in Palm Beach
May 56 she and Sweeney, who cancelled their wedding plans a few months ago, look as though the have revived the idea
August 57 marries Sweeny in the Round Hill Community Church in Greenwich, Connecticut. A small reception is held in Southampton, Long Island. Sweeney is the son of the late Mr. and Mrs. Robert Sweeny of New York. He’s a partner in the Federated Trust and Finance Corporation, Ltd., London, and attended Oxford University. He was a squadron leader in the Royal Air Force and founder of the Eagle Squadron. Sweeney received the Distinguished Flying Cross. His previous marriage was terminated by divorce.
September 57 she and her husband have lunch at the Ambassador. She’s dressed up in a simple black dress with lots of pearls and a bright green bow in her blond hair.
November 57 she and Sweeny are entertained by the Jock McLeans
March 58 she and Sweeny are expected to lead a denial of the rift rumors. Their close friends are busy whispering that the marriage is all over.
Sweeny dispels the separation rumors by presenting her with a stunning sapphire ring