Paul Wesley

Paul Wesley
Paul Wesley  American Actor

Paul Wesley dating history

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Paul Wesley was previously married to Ines de Ramon (2019 - 2022) and Torrey DeVitto (2011 - 2013).

Paul Wesley has been in relationships with Phoebe Tonkin (2013 - 2017) and Marnette Patterson (2004 - 2005).


Paul Wesley is a 41 year old American Actor. Born Pawel Tomasz Wasilewski on 23rd July, 1982 in New Brunswick, New Jersey, USA and educated at Christian Brothers Academy in Lincroft, New Jersey, he is famous for Stefan Salvatore in The Vampire Diaries. His zodiac sign is Cancer.

Paul Wesley has been in 12 on-screen matchups, including Candice King in The Vampire Diaries (2009), Nina Dobrev in The Vampire Diaries (2009), Kaley Cuoco in 8 Simple Rules (2002), Amber Tamblyn in The Russell Girl (2008) and Claire Holt in The Vampire Diaries (2009).

Paul Wesley is a member of the following lists: Actors from New Jersey, American television actors and 1982 births.


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Relationship Statistics

Married2 6 years, 8 months 5 years, 3 months -
Dating3 4 years, 3 months 1 year, 11 months 2 months, 1 day
Total5 6 years, 8 months 3 years, 3 months 2 months, 1 day


First Name Pawel
Middle Name Tomasz
Last Name Wasilewski
Full Name at Birth Pawel Tomasz Wasilewski
Alternative Name P-Dub, Paul Wesley, Paul Thomas Wasilewski
Birthday 23rd July, 1982
Birthplace New Brunswick, New Jersey, USA
Height 5' 11" (180 cm)
Build Athletic
Eye Color Green
Hair Color Brown - Light
Distinctive Feature Spiked Dark Hair, Bushy Eyebrows
Zodiac Sign Cancer
Sexuality Straight
Religion Christian
Ethnicity White
Nationality American
High School Marlboro High School, Marlboro, New Jersey, USA, Christian Brothers Academy in Lincroft, New Jersey
University Rutgers University, New Jersey, USA (dropped out)
Occupation Text Actor | Producer | Director
Occupation Actor
Claim to Fame Stefan Salvatore in The Vampire Diaries
Year(s) Active 1999–present
Talent Agency (e.g. Modelling) ICM Partners
Brand Endorsement TV commercials for Youth Smoking Prevention (1999)
Official Websites,,,,
Father Tomasz Wasilewski, Giuseppe Salvatore
Mother Agnieszka Wasilewska
Brother Damon Salvatore
Sister Monika Wasilewski, Julia Wasilewski, Leah Wasilewski
Family Member Zachariach Salvatore (Paternal half-nephew), Joseph Salvatore (Distant Paternal Half-Nephew), Zach Salvatore (Distant Paternal Half-Nephew)
Friend Ian Somerhalder, Nina Dobrev, Matthew Davis, Ben McKenzie, Candice Accola, Claire Holt, Joseph Morgan, Kat Graham, Zach Roerig, Michael Trevino, Julie Plec, Nathaniel Buzolic, Elena Gilbert, Caroline Forbes, Rebekah Mikealson, Bonnie Bennet, Lexi Branson, Meredith Fell
Associated People Ian Somerhalder, Nina Dobrev, Torrey DeVitto
Pets Greggy (dog)
Favorite Foods Fish, Sushi

PaweĊ‚ Tomasz Wasilewski (born July 23, 1982), known professionally as Paul Wesley and formerly as Paul Wasilewski, is an American actor and director. He is known for his lead role as Stefan Salvatore on the drama series The Vampire Diaries as well as his multiple film and television roles, including the anthology series Tell Me a Story.

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Paul Wesley41 CancerActor
Natalie Kuckenburg23 CancerModel
Ines de Ramon34 SagittariusSales Professional
Phoebe Tonkin34 CancerActress
Torrey DeVitto39 GeminiActress
Marnette Patterson43 TaurusActress


Star Trek: Strange New Worlds2022Captain James T. Kirk, Lieutenant James T. KirkTV Show
Flowers in the Attic: The Origin2022John AmosTV Show
Killer Movie: Director's Cut2021Jake TannerMovie
Fabled2018JoshTV Show
Tell Me a Story2018Eddie Longo, Tucker ReedTV Show
Medal of Honor2018Clint RomeshaTV Show
Aliens2018Narrator (voice)Short Film
Confessions of a Drug Addicted High School Teacher2017JasonTV Show
The Late Bloomer2016CharlieMovie
Mothers and Daughters2016KevinMovie
Amira & Sam2014CharlieMovie
Before I Disappear2014GideonMovie
The Originals2013Stefan SalvatoreTV Show
The Baytown Outlaws2012ReeseMovie
Beneath the Blue2010CraigMovie
The Vampire Diaries2009Silas, Stefan Salvatore, Tom AveryTV Show
Killer Movie2008Jake TannerMovie
The Russell Girl2008Evan CarrollTV Movie
Army Wives2007PFC Logan AtwaterTV Show
Cane2007NickTV Show
Fallen2007Aaron CorbettTV Show
Cloud 92006JacksonMovie
Lenexa, 1 Mile2006Rick LausierMovie
Peaceful Warrior2006TrevorMovie
Fallen2006Aaron CorbettTV Movie
Shark2006Justin BishopTV Show
Roll Bounce2005TroyMovie
The Last Run2004Seth (as Paul Wasilewski)Movie
CSI: NY2004Steve SamprassTV Show
The Edge2003TV Movie
Cold Case2003Petey Murphy '08TV Show
The O.C.2003DonnieTV Show
Minority Report2002Nathan with Bicycle (uncredited)Movie
Young Arthur2002Lancelot (as Paul Wasilewski)TV Movie
8 Simple Rules2002DamianTV Show
American Dreams2002Tommy DeFeliceTV Show
CSI: Miami2002Jack Warner BradfordTV Show
Everwood2002Tommy CallahanTV Show
Shot in the Heart2001Gary (Age 15-22) (as Paul Wasilewski)TV Movie
242001StephenTV Show
Crossing Jordan2001Quentin BakerTV Show
Law & Order: Criminal Intent2001Luke MillerTV Show
Robot Chicken2001Kurt von Trapp, Piccolo, SoldierTV Show
Smallville2001Lucas LuthorTV Show
The Education of Max Bickford2001CraigTV Show
Wolf Lake2001Luke CatesTV Show
Law & Order: Special Victims Unit1999Danny Burrell, Luke BreslinTV Show
Another World1964Sean McKinnonTV Show
Guiding Light1952Max NickersonTV Show
History of EvilMovie
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BreemAguirreBreemAguirreJun 22, 2017

BreemAguirreBreemAguirreJun 22, 2017

Paul Wesley and Phoebe Break up again ! He's hooked up with Jennifer Morrison

BreemAguirreBreemAguirreJun 22, 2017

Paul is hooked up with Jennifer Morrison

lupita263lupita263Oct 26, 2015

Torrey is far more beautiful than Phoebe! Paul is beautiful, why did he leave Torrey?

u stefan monkeyDec 25, 2014

stefan salvatore, yo u are disgusting u g l y fa g got c o c s u k e r

bayannjrbayannjrSep 20, 2014

i love you guys together your such a cute couple

tina20tina20Jul 3, 2014

He not date her he date other girl

nancys425Jun 19, 2014

I love Paul in TVD as Stefan. His chemistry with Nina is amazing.

sammie_crushsammie_crushMay 3, 2014

I feel bad for Torrey. :'(

AniApr 28, 2014

Phoebe and Paul are still dating.. they just posted pics on instagram separately of the same vacation..

inestrindadeApr 14, 2014

paul and phoebe are super cute together

harey chamberlainMar 18, 2014

I think in vampire diaries you should date Elena Gilbert. You two will be a perfect couple and maybe in real life.

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